Wednesday, July 20, 2011

What do you think he told his friends? And why did he turn his back at me?

i have a feeling he likes u girl but i dont know what else to say maybe like talk to him ask him why hes acting in that way say that youve noticed and stuff

What are some really pretty lullabies for adult or kids?

My cousin died in a car crash almost 6 months after having her baby girl, Aviana. My family is taking care of her for a while and so i wanted to teach her some lullabies and not the normal ones we hear all the time. And if you can find Spanish/ Puerto Rican ones would be great!!!!! I will really enjoy your help plus you'd be helping me and my chorus too....thanks!!!!!!!!

My best friend never invites me places!?

You should make a party and not invite them. This will be a lesson for them. When they are not invited, they will feel your pain. Good Luck!

What Gaming TV should i get?

I decided it was time to get a new TV for myself but was unsure which one. I am a pretty serious gamer and have grownup playing standard definition. I am absolutely terrible when I play on my friends HDTV and I would consider myself an above average gamer. I decided I should just get an HDTV and get used to it. My two options are 28inch with 5ms or a 32inch with 8.5ms. Ms is response time from the controller to TV. Standard TV's have 0ms so I understand it's going to feel a lot different. The second tv is 4 inches bigger but its has 3.5 more ms. So basically I have to choose; Bigger TV or better response time. Both TV's cost the same. If anyone has also had this issue if you know how long it took for you to get used too please message me and if you know if the difference between getting an 8ms or 5ms is going to be that significant. Thank You.

What to do with my ipod touch?

ok so my ipod had a lot of extra stuff on it i no longer wanted so i restored it (used the restore on the ipod not from itunes but when you go into settings and restore everything) so i did that and it showed a logo with a loading bar, took about 45 minutes to complete then a apple startup icon turned on and the loading wheel.. waited about ten minutes and it went black then did the loading wheel again.. it has been doing this for a while so i decided to hold the wake/sleep and home button to manually turn it off but that doesnt seem to be working (its also not popping up on my itunes) what can i do?

Is it a violation to alter a link to get a Q to post?

That is not an acceptable question by YA standards. It is a violation for chat. You cannot ask our opinion about an article you read. That is an invitation to debate and that is not permitted.

Is lack of sleep related to feelings of stress and anxiety?

my friend recently started a job where she's working a lot and at weird hours like 5 am to 1 pm and 8 pm to 10 am..randomly on different days but every single day and she's tired, of course. since starting this job she has been very stressed out and extremely anxious and thinking about things you typically wouldn't think about...i.e. thinking about the steering wheel turning before each turn, etc etc. do you think her sleep deprivation is related to these feelings shes experiencing or no?

Not sure if its a steering tie rod end or a wheel bearing?

i have a 2000 jeep cherokee sport, when going down the road above 50 but below 60 i have a very bad vibration which the steering wheel wobbles alot and the front end of the jeep shakes like if i was to move the steering wheel side to side very fast. Also every time i turn the wheel any direction while moving i can hear clicking from the front.

Is there a 4-h for adults?

i live in the country and i have eversince i was 5 and what i wouldnt have given to take 4-h to learn how to show goats, cows, horses, pigs ect. im 20 years old now and i am wondering if theres a 4-h for grownups?

I like a girl who has a boyfriend.?

I fell in love with this amazing girl. She's everything I am looking for. One day I told her I like her, and she admitted she likes me too. The problem is she has a boyfriend. we've been hanging out a lot lately. She went four wheeling with my family and I, and I go to her house and hang out sometimes. She told me her boyfriend and her aren't doing too well together. like her boyfriend wants to do "stuff" she doesn't, and he seems to have more interest in other people then her. she said she feels like she's a burden to him. She says she's more happy when she's with me, but she loves him and wants him to be happy. I want them both to be happy. Me and her talked tonight and she said she's going to try to work things out between them two, but I don't think it will. I just don't know what to do. should I stick around and wait for her, or should I move on? I can't stand being away from her, and I can't stand to be with her because we can't be more than friends.

Does this girl like me? I will answer your questions?

From what I can tell, this girl likes flirting with you, but probably doesn't want to date you. At the same time, she probably doesn't want you to flirt or be with other girls. People tend to get jealous even over someone that really don't have feelings for just because they want attention (the whole I don't want it until I can't have it thing). If she really liked you, even if you had brought up a boring topic when you were talking she would probably do anything to keep that conversation going. It doesn't sound like you've ever had any in-depth conversations with this girl though. You seem to have more casual, polite "hi how are you doing" conversations. I also would like to point out that while you may think that you caught her looking at you, she may not have been looking at you at all. People often mistake these kinds of glances for signs of affection. It really sounds like you're reading way too much into things. I don't want to disappoint you, but I highly doubt she likes you.

Was asked if I was afraid someone was going to kiss me.?

sticking this in the Marriage/divorce section because the Singles one is filled with teenagers. and I want grownups' opinions. joined the online dating world a few months ago. One of the guys I'd been talking to, hanging out with made some odd comments the other day. I am not one who opens up straight away, but he's been patient. and our convo the other day I mentioned that alot of people seem to have been rubbing off on me lately. he could tell cuz I wasn't as quiet as I had been when we first met. and when referring to that, he said "you know I'm not gonna hurt you. are you afraid I'm gonna kiss ya?" uh, what the heck? where did that come from? (subtle hint perhaps?)

How accurate is the KE= ( mv^2)/2 relation ?

You this man uses the the wheel to push him self forward. Now unlike pushing the wheel uses friction to move forward. Hence there is a loss of energy due to friction (in the form of heat). Hence KE doesn't constitute the total energy consumed.

Need Opinions Please?

No, I don't think you're being too sensitive. It's a shame they butted in and didn't let you do your thing! I would ask your mom why she didn't let you do the cooking and see what she says. She might have had a good reason and then you can tell her it upset you (be nice about it though!). sometimes adults don't realize how important something is to a younger person, so don't stay angry about it too long. Just have a nice conversation about it.

I need to know how hard is it to put seals in the power steering rack for a GMC Yukon 4 wheel drive 5.7 vortex?

I would love it if you had a diagram and i do understand that it is going to be a pretty big job but i am good with my hands so would love some great advice since i will be doing this by myself and the only help i have is my three year old son. Trying to save some money and help out a neighbor in these hard times.

Woman who cares for my grownup son calls him and his friend chldren?

I have a woman who cares for my autistic son, who is 29, and although functioning less than average for his age, is still an adult and should be treated with dignity and not referred to as a child. She has a son who is 26 and she always tells her son not to interrupt in "grownup conversations" and tries to constantly tell him what to do. My son goes over there on weekends and she caters to and babies my son and treats him as if he is 9 and says go put your jammies on, etc. I told her I do not think we (meaning her and I) are good for our sons when we don't treat them as adults, and she said they are chldren in the mild. True to a point, but they will never reach their true potential, being treated as this. Should I keep my son from being around her as much? Today, I went to pick him up and she said "Michael has icky stuff on his shirt and it needs to be wiped off immediately." I said he can do it himself. She said don't be harsh and it needs to be wiped off and she grabbed a shirt and wiped it off. I think she should have said Michael you have something on your shirt and let him choose to wipe it off. Her son also watches porn and smokes and she goes crazy when she finds stuff like that out. I think they are adults and should be given the right to watch porno and smoke if that is their choice, even though I don't think either is good for their health. I just think they should be treated as if they were adults and not treated like they are five. What do you think?

Want to live with boyfriend and my baby but dad wont let me?

i will be almost 17 when i have my baby and my boyfriend will be almost 19. my brother smokes with his girlfriend all day. my dad smokes too when hes home. i don't want to be around all this while I'm pregnant and then after i have the baby. my boyfriend has threatened to take the baby from me and go live with his mom if my dad wont let me move out before I'm 18. my boyfriend and i want to get married but not now. if i marry him and then can i move in with him after we are married? and he is getting a job in less then a month. he will graduate in 2 months. and i am currently doing online school to get my diploma. just because I'm young doesn't mean I'm still childish. i am very mature for my age and my boyfriend is too. can somebody please help me i want to move into an apartment with my boyfriend. neither of us want to be around dog hair and pot and alcohol and neither of us want our baby to be around that. i don't want my family to get in trouble i just want to leave and be on my own. im basically grownup already. always have been.

What is the greatest invention ever?

this a href="http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/productdisplay_et!letc~ev!46043%7C%7Cet!letc~ev!10201%7C%7Cet!letc~ev!10202%7C%7C_40151_-1_46043_88605_10001_10201" rel="nofollow"http://www.annsummers.com/webapp/wcs/sto…/a

What does a play date mean?

it did get published, and i answered. but you left out the play games and go to the park part :):) yes, in this case, it is a real date and it involves just what he said, playing some games and going to the park.

Why does my mother act like this?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs. and her and my mom have NEVER gotten along. The reason they don't get along is because my gf is black (dominican and puerto rican) and according to my mother "all black people are bad people". Over these past couple of years I have done everything in my power to try and prove to my mom what a beautiful and wonderful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. Now my gf is 5 mos. pregnant and we told my mom a few weeks ago, she wasn't happy about it and went as far as calling my child a "n*gger baby". I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. Now apparently she went and told the whole family what I said to her and now everyone is calling me and telling me how wrong I am and how I should apologize to her (which I don't plan on doing anytime soon). So I'm assuming she didn't tell them the truth about what happened. Why is she like this? How can somebody have so much hate for a person that they barely even know?

Can anyone give me a few Puerto Rican names?

I'm not having a kid, I'm working on a book about my life and I don't want to use people that I know names...so if anyone can give me a few Puerto Rican not other spanish countries, names. thanks ! last names also

Why is it that?????????(question to anyone with an IQ above 70?)?

Have you lived in America for a while? It's like they say, "Karma is a bit*h." Stuff that was cool and funny way back then isn't so cool and funny when it's turned around and experienced the opposite way. On the flipside, maybe white entertainers aren't as gifted as their black counterparts. They can't be funny and non-offensive. Black comedians have a way of getting you to laugh at yourself regardless of your ethnicity. In the end, history just has a way of biting one's as*.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Should i have another girbiel in the cage with my girbiel?

my gerbil recently passed away and i don't know if my gerbil is lonely or she really doesn't care. when i had 2 gerbils the one that died hogged the seeds and the wheel.

What were you most known for saying when you were a child?

When I was little, I was really shy, so if anyone that wasn't in my family or a friend tried to talk to me, I would just say, "No!" regardless of what they said. Eventually one of my dad's friends started calling me No. I grew out of it by kindergarten.

My mom found my birthcontrol pills, she freaked. What to do?

Good for you for taking precautions. Your Mum should be pleased that her daughter is mature enough to take control! Explain to her that there are 22 year old girls out there (me!) that weren't careful like you and became mothers at 17 years old. Your Mum will get over it! She just doesn't want her baby growing up so fast. Say you are sorry she feels that way about it, you love your boyfriend and you are being safe. Give it time, she will be okay.

Im 18 and mixed with black white and puerto rican and very athletic how can i become a pornstar?

i have alot of experience with women and already know the risks of becoming a male pornstar but i know how to dance and do many otherthings that would help out the videos

I need help planning my spa birthdayyy :D (Details below)?

okay so i've been looking around for places and i found a couple but they either are too far or too grownup. im turning 16 and im trying to have a spa bday with a couple of my friends kinda like what they had a libby lu but for older kids. i want it to be a salon and spa. please helppp . i live in maryland. links would be helpful .

What do you think of the following baby names?

I really like Jayden and Akexander. I think, because you are in America and you are caucasian, you might want to go for Jayden. But considering that your husband/boyfriend is Puerto Rican, Alexander might be a better name for his side of the family, I mean the baby will be half Puerto Rican.

How to find efficiency of wheel chair in terms of energy in and energy out?

You cannot do this for an off-the-shelf w/c. The key is center of gravity. As the user masters propulsion, you remove useless parts (back and foot rests etc.). The height is also important. Lower is better especially for rough and uneven terrain. Wheel one around for awhile. It becomes obvious.

Should differential fluid be in the axle?

I have a small leak of differential gear oil in the gasket of my axle vacuum motor for my 4 wheel drive about a 12-15 inches down the axle from the differential. Is the gear oil supposed to lube the axle or is the differential leaking internally? I have a 1999 dodge ram 1500.

Any good YOUNG Puerto Rican singers?

I am doing I project in school on Puerto Rico, and I thought that would be great considering I am Puerto Rican! But for music I don't know any YOUNG singers. I have found a bunch of old people, but not younger GOOD singers. I found Jennifer Lopez, Marc Anthony, and Ricky Martin. They are not that old, but I am looking for people 20 and under. Almost like the Puerto Rican version of Selena Gomez, Miley Cyrus, or Justin Bieber, that most teens gossip about!

Is it a driving safety hazard to drive with warped brake rotors?

I have a 2006 Chevrolet Cobalt LS Sedan with 93,000 miles. When I drive down a steep hill and press on the brakes, the steering wheel shakes and I can hear it,and when I drive fast on the highway the steering shakes but not as much as driving down a hill without pressing the brakes. I called the mechanic and he said it is warped brake rotors. I had my rotors changed in April 2011 and this problem has been happening for over a year. I am scheduled to see the front end mechanic to see if that is the problem and I may just get my rotors replaced or fixed. Your thoughts? The Mechanic said I should get with the last mechanic whom changed my brake rotors, but I will see when I get my cars front end checked and he said it's not an alignment problem, but a brake rotor problem? How much are titanium brake rotors?

Im afraid to lie to my mom, but if i tell her the truth she wont let me go?

Theres a party tonight and instead of having a DD me and my friend were going to sleep over. Everytime i hang out with that group they always say sleep over that way we all can drink. Im afraid to tell my mom that i would sleep over cuz shes not a fan of the people im haning out with, which is rediculus esp cuz the main reason is cuz the guy (i like but dare not tell my mom) is puerto rican and im white. My friend came up with the idea of me telling my mom id sleep over her house after the party instead of the guys house. Idk what to tell her because i dont want to lie to her, because if i lose her trust id be screwed. What should i do or say to make her okay with me staying over a guys house.. (everyone stays over that is at the party)

Pooping in pants HELP?

what do other ppl do when they poop in there pants and your not home. like if you are in a store gettin grocerys with ur mom or sitting in class. at home i just take them off sometimes i just clean them in the sink fast or if i hav to i throw them away or bury them in the ground. i never pooped in class but i get scared thinking it could happen 1 day. when i am in a store i just go to the bathrrom fast and throw my underwear in the trash can and no 1 nos. 1 time i had diareeah and i had to keep walkng with my mom in the store i couldnt do anything about it i thought i was going to leave a trail behind me as i walk but i tucked my pants into my socks. that was the worst time ever. rlly embarresing, it doesnt happen a lot maybe once a month sometimes i think there is something wrong with me or my parents took to long to potty train me but i no even some grownups wear diapers so i feel better. but what do you guys do with all your pants and underwear. my dad is starting to ask questions and wonder what happends to all of my pants he buys and tells me he doesnt work 40 hours a week so he can spend it all on pants for me. i just tell him idk where they go. he thinks i sell them to kids at school so i can buy snacks at lunch. so what do u ppl do with your pants do u just wash them real good or bring them to a dry cleaner or something? i need to no!!!!

What are some Puerto Rican guys nicknames?

I'm working on a book and I don't want to use actual names of people I know, so I need a few different Puerto Rican hood or family nicknames please. For example like Chico, Jay Jay, Nando, Ace, etc.

Does this sound like discrimination?

Ok so me, my girlfriend, my girlfriend's girlfriend, and her boyfriend went looking for a place. We are all different races and have different personalities. I'm half dominican and half black. My girlfriend is puerto rican and white. Her girlfriend is white and her boyfriend is black. I am a versatile black man having ghetto and preppy characteristics. My girlfriend and her two friends are the same. We all listen to rap, smoke weed, and use slang in our speech. We also are in college except the other boyfriend. I live with my girlfriend and her white family. My girlfriend's white friend live with her boyfriend and his black family. Anyway my girlfriend called this apartment and the lady said that she had openings. So we all went to look at the place. When we got there the lady said "oh all of you are moving in here. I'm sorry we only have one room apartments". Now we all heard her say she had two bedroom apartments. I was dressed nice, wearing a polo tucked in and some nice slacks. My girlfriends was dressed all ghetto looking showing all her tattoos on her arms. Her girlfriend was just as ghetto and had her baby with her. Her boyfriends was dressed ghetto with his pants hanging off his butt and was wearing a white tee shirt. So it was two black men(I look black even though I'm mixed) and two white girls(my girlfriend's friend is one of those trashy looking white girls and she has a kid by a ghetto black man). So even though I sound racist describing this it was true. Also we was in a white neighborhood and the apartment was on the lake(high rise). We don't have enough evidence to report them the Federal Housing Act. So I said next time we have to dress preppy. College shirt's, glasses, good vocabulary, etc.

Should i get the scene hairstyle?

I'm Puerto Rican so i have a bit of a tan, though i'm not super dark. I guess it's an olive skin tone. I've only seen pictures of the scene hairstyle on white girls, so i'm not sure how it would look on me and my skin color. If you have pictures, those would be helpful. :)

Like I want to know if I'm being paraoid or she really hates me?

Perhaps she was no longer interested in you based on your appearance. I have done the same thing after meeting a guy from online in person... While the conversation could be great, appearance plays a role as well.

Is "Darine" a spanish name for a girl?

im puerto rican and the girl i saw in school she looked latina and she had that name name but i never heard that name in my life

Question on being racist toward white people? Opinions?

Ok so, I know that alot of the time there has been racism from white people toward other ethnicities. But sometimes it bothers me that people dont bring up the fact that other races can be racist toward white people. Im mixed (puerto rican and black but mostly puerto rican) and i have had my fair share of run ins with racist white people..but ive also been treated bad by black people and spanish people alike due to the color of my skin or what its in my blood. I see a lot of shows that encourage people of different ethnicities to feel beautiful and I think that is wonderful. But I cant help but see how bad they put white people in the light. Like my moms best friend is white. When she went to a primarily black area, they treated her like crap for NO reason. Sometimes they say white women have skinny lips, pointed noses, too skinny, etc. I dont know..i dont think its fair. Not all white people are bad people, just like not all black people are bad, spanish, asian, middle eastern etc. I think all races are beautiful in their own way. Sometimes I see white people on t.v. get badly treated by other races..and its like maybe they didnt do anything wrong. Maybe they want to do what u wanna do to. My thing is..if u dont wanna be judged, dont judge others. Treat people the way you wanna be treated no matter what race. Has anyone else besides me noticed this? God Bless

How to make my hair like hispanics?

I'm black puerto rican and I have straight hair. But I Want to make my hair moist and straight like Hispanic boys. My hair is 1 inch, is there anything I can use to make it like that. I want it easy to laydown. My hair texture is just like Drake the rapper. I'm fine with how it is. I just want to try something new. Please help

Best-selling, lightweight, completely-enclosed, 2-passenger, high-mpg, 3-wheeled car in the world? -- MORE --?

There are several three-wheeled vehicles being developed for sale in the USA. My favorite is the Aptera... a href="http://www.aptera.com/" rel="nofollow"http://www.aptera.com//a

Would a albanian guy marry a black girl?

he says he will take me anywhere ,and he tells me im gorgeous every min but I went through racial puerto rican family I cant do it again .help

Am I being unreasonable?

I live with my mum, my dad and my lodger. During the cold days and nights we had people round here every week, I didn't mind as it wasn't like everyday. But now it's sunny and the pool is up lots of people are constantly round 24/7 and I wouldn't mind but most of them just turn up without seeing if it's okay first. Most the people that come round i personally don't like but they still come over anyways and most of them ignore me so I go and sit in my room because its so boring. I don't mind people coming over its just everyday from early in the morning till late at night drinking lots of alochol and making loads of noise and leaving the back gate open (my mums dog runs off) and throwing me in the pool after knowing how I feel about it. I have spoken to my mum about it but she gets really mad at me and does this whole, "They all care about you, life is too short to be stuck in your bedroom." speech and it's getting me really mad. Am I being unreasonable by wanting the odd day with just my family or having my friends round without lots of grownups talking about sex and getting drunk. Im 15 btw.Your opinions please.

What are some good traditional puerto rican meals to make?

My boyfriend is puerto rican and hes always sayin how he misses his moms food that she was such a good cook I want to impress him but also suprise him which is why I dnt wanna ask him what he wants me to cook so can any one reccoment some puerto rican food recipes plz and thank you

Question....anyone a mix of black/puerto rican. has it become a advantage to you in your life or disadvantage?

both ways. esp if u're brownish! hard to say. if in NY - its fine. if in nebraska, arkansas etc - not so fntastic.

HELP?! Behind the wheel...instructor and kids?

I don't choose who's in my car by the way, haha but I drive tomorrow..FIRST. With the instructor and two other kids in the class by random choose. I'm terrified I'm gonna mess up? I don't wanna fail drivers ed? it's real expensive I have 8 driving days left. Words of advice?

How much have you spent on either 24" or 26" chrome wheels with tires?

I'm looking to purchase either 24" or 26" wheels with tires (package) for my 09 Chevy Tahoe. I'm shopping around but want to know ball park how much I should be looking to spend and to make sure people are not getting over on me. Please let me know the brands you got so I know that as well because of course it makes a difference with brand names on the wheels and/or the tires. Thanks so much for your help.

Pleeeeeeaaaaaase help?!?!?

Their your friends, what their doing is wrong and right. Wrong becuase they are trying to force what they want to happen, right becuase their all trying to help you get through the akward phase. I know how you feel the awkawrd moment becuase your so nervous, just when you talk to him on facebook or text see what you mostly talk about, try to bring it up when you are face to face. You have to step out of your comfort zone, i mean he IS your boyfriend he likes you for you so be yourself like you are around your best friend, a boyfriend is like a best friend too expect you get to uhhh yea you get the point. Say what you wanna say even if it's stupid, you might actually find more things about eachother(:

Do adults still bully each other?

like kids do? But, I know adults don't call each other names and tease each other they way like kids do. Is it worse to be bullied as a grownup or a child? and Why?

I went to court yesterday for possession of marijuana.?

Im 16 almost 17 and i lost my driving privileges for a year, so that means i can't drive until i'm 18. i got the ticket at school not behind the wheel that's why i'm kinda tripping.

Monday, July 18, 2011

What should I do about my best friend?

Ok, so my best friend and I have been good friends for quite a while now. She seemed really nice and weird and funny...in the beginning. But now that we've entered High School, she has become down right racist. I'm Black and she's Puerto Rican. All she tells me these days are all the Black jokes she finds online. Like i of all people want to hear that. She is also color struck! I'm really sick of her calling me dark. She is REALLY pasty pale. So everyone seems dark compared to her. Me on the other hand, I'm like Zoe Saldana complexion. Lastly, She wrote a note once saying that I am nothing but an African dancing around the fire waving my fingers around my mouth. Making that weird sound. Like Native Americans did. Anywaaaz, should I stay friends with her or should I just drop her or what? What should I seriously do?

KISSING ON THE FIRST DATE...?? Yes or NO?

maybe a kiss on the cheek, but remember: if you also want a relationship with this person instead of just being makeout buddies, I'd say wait till the second or third date to kiss on the lips.

Why would you suppose there are many conflicting, contradicting, and confused versions of the Osama raid and?

the aftermath? Do we have a bunch of clumsy moron bunglers for leaders? Do we have the right to be told the truth like grownup adults? We should be viewing some proof that leaves no doubt!

ANY CREATIVE IDEAS.....?

Ok so i met this guy who is puerto rican and italian and he's super hot and sweet:) he lives in another state and wants to spend time with me when i come back. I was thinking that maybe we could have a picnic at the park. Should i make some food that may interest him culturally? And if you dont think a picnic is a good idea, what else could we do?

Grownups: Do you ever wish you had the luxury of being an emo?

It must be nice for these histrionic teenagers to be able to lock themselves in their room and play video games and surf the web and post messages about how depressed they are and no one listens and the world is full of hypocrites and smoke pot and salvia and giggle at fractal zoom videos and post asinine comments on YouTube ("trippin' on 'shrooms dude") and eat the food in their parents' refrigerator even though they hate their parents and not get a job so they can get their own food and their own place because they plan on killing themselves anyway...while the rest of us hold down jobs and pay mortgages and mow the lawn.

Upgrading 7 speed MTB to a 9 speed? and...?

Ok so I'm upgrading shifters so I thought I might as well upgrade to a 9 speed. I measured the spacing for the rear wheel and I got 134.5mm.... Now, is this enough spacing to fit a 9 speed, or better yet a 10 speed cassette?.... Now concerning the derailuer hanger. Are all made to fit the same way on any MTB? Or do I need an specific model for the type of mounting that I have?

Need advice on how to get rid of an ex girlfriend!?

Ok here's the deal. Last year almost to this very day I met this really beautiful Puerto Rican chick. She was pretty darn smart, seemed very sweet, strong willed, great sense of humor, I mean this girl had everything I would ever look for in a woman, and then some. Well as time went by we developed a very passionate relationship. I fell very much in love with this girl, and she "appeared" to be equally in love with me. Then something changed; she started to be more withdrawn, she stopped calling me as much, and even texting became like a chore for her. Then it happened. On my birthday of all days she sent me a damn text saying it was over and she had someone else (who happened to be a 17 year old boy), so it was such a humiliation, and blow to my ego. Well less than a month goes by and she is already seeing the flaws in her choices; so she comes back to me. Like a fool I accepted everything and took her back with open arms with the forgive and forget attitude. We dated for a few more months and everything seemed right on track; until she decided that she wanted a break. I just thought "Ok, well if this is how she wants it." but we kinda turned into friend's with benefits. Well this kinda sparked back into yet another full fledged relationship. This time it was extremely romantic, hot and heavy in every aspect. Then she left for Puerto Rico. She told me that she was going to PR for a while just to get centered, visit friends and family, all because she was feeling terrible and wanted to get back in touch with her roots and self. About 3 or so weeks into this vacation she pretty much told me that she didn't have feelings like that for me anymore and that I wasn't missed. I was frustrated, angry, and very heartbroken; but I got by and met someone and we've been trying to start something special. But here just a few days ago the ex has arrived back in North Carolina. She has contacted me and we've spoken. The PR vacation only made her feel worse. She had hooked up with some douche in a matter of days after me and her split the last time, and he used her like a hole in the mattress. Now she's back, and is wanting this buddy buddy bull$hit! I still love this girl and having her back in my life is affecting every aspect of my other relationships, with friends, family, and this new girl. PLEASE I'M BEGGING Y'ALL! Give me something that can help me get rid of this chick once and for all!

I am still a child if I want to be, right?

I am fifteen, and I am so sick and tired of adults expecting teenagers to act like grownups. They assume that we all want to date and drive and do drugs. I am not that way at all, and so it really bugs me how people make assumptions about me before they get to know me. I think that kissing is disgusting, and I couldn't care less about having a boyfriend, unlike so many other girls my age. I am just not interested in so many of the things other teenagers are. I still consider myself a child, why can't adults? I have not left childhood behind yet.

Does anyone do interracial relations? If so what makes you attracted to the other race?

I'm only asking just because I am an inquisitive person. I am puerto rican and I love black women. The reason why I love black women is because they are just very attractive and strong-minded. At least the ones that I have been with. I'm not saying other races aren't attractive or strong-minded, but I am just simply giving my reasons why I am attracted to black women.

What size are wheels?

What size are the wheels for a razor A2 scooter? And I wanna get some purple (sorta like bike grips) handle grips, would I have to get a new handle thingy? (The steering thing I forgot what its called)

What other actors/celebrities has Asian wives?

Owen wilson just had a half asian child, and so did Nicholas cage, Kevin james from grownups /king of queens also has a asian wife with a baby :) i think they came out so cute I'm 3/4 asian myself, just a question, don't try to hate! :|

What would u considered me as?

Well I know this is a dumb question but who is considered black? Im puerto rican, cherokee indian,black,and portguesse on my mom's side and black and irish on my dad's side. I never really had a problem with my mixed race but now I would just like to know if people who are mixed race and had a little black in then are they considered black? Like for example I do consider myself a mixed race but my mom always told me people are going to look at me as black. Please dont judge im just asking a simple question

Can anyone recommend a good 'Learn to play piano book' for grownups?

I got a couple of grades a few years ago, but probably could do with starting again from scratch. I particularly need help with learning to sight read as this always let me down in the exams! I just can't afford piano lesson fees and wanted to know if there were any good books out there that didn't involve playing nursery rhymes.

How do I get this annoying racist girl to leave me alone?

This girl wont leave me alone. She makes fun of me because Im mixed, my mom is Puerto
Rican and my dad is black and mixed with white, she makes all these jokes calling me a piece of sh**t and talking about how the UK is better and that shes all glamorous up there. shes keeps saying that I live in texas so I have to catch what I eat and etc, and she keeps saying she has a life but she wont leave me alone .All these insults telling people that I eat dog and saying that Im a ******* and all of this is NOT true. She keeps getting on my nerves and no one likes her because shes racist, but she bothers me mostly because she knows it really bothers. Ive tried ignoring her but shes still doing the same thing. How do I get her to leave me alone?

How long does it take to dowload a movie I bought off of iTunes on my iPod?

I have verizon wireless and I'm trying to download grownups I bought the movie how long does it take

How can i take appart a bmx pedal?

I bought a new rear wheel for my bmx bike and the driver is on the left side. I switched the cranks the opposite way.now my problem is that my pedals are backwards now.the "L" pedal is on the right and the "R" pedal is on the left.if I put the whole pedal the correct side,it would mess up the crank thread.can someone tell me how to take it appart to switch only the plastic part?

I get nervous around my bf's sis?

My boyfriend has a really close relationship with his family. He has 2 sisters, a 25 year old sis and a 16 year old one. I get along with the young one because she's closer to my age (i'm 18). But I get so nervous around the old one because she looks at me as if she's looking at a child. I really care about my boyfriend (he's 21) and it's the first serious relationship that I ever had. Tonight we were going on a double date with his cousin and his girlfriend but now the older sister is coming too (such a third wheel). My boyfriend doesn't know that I get nervous around her. When she's around I usually stop talking because I don't know what to say so that I don't look childish. I am rather a fun colorful person, she's a real classy person. I don't know how I'm going to act tonight. We're gonna go in my boyfriend's car so I'm really gonna be nervous if he kisses me in front of her. Weird right? Any advice?

What happens if I tone my butt?

I'm puerto rican and I already have a round behind so if I tone it would it stay the same and just be firm and if I stop with the toning excersices will it go flat or just go back to how it is now

What does my dream mean? pt 1 of 2?

i recommend buying a dream dictionary they aren't that expensive it's very hard to explain your dream...

Girls only pls! 10 pts for quick best answer!?

Well I didnt get my first period until I was almost 16, it was abit embarrassing because my friends would be talking about it but then again its a good thing because I didnt have to deal with it until I reached 16. I was also extremely moody at your age and the best way to handle that is not to take it out on anyone, just try and go off by yourself whenever you feel that way. Hope this helps.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

How much would my 1965 ford mustang be worth/valued at today?

(also possibly what it originally cost) It is all original, matching numbers, coupe, pony interior, deluxe steering wheel with matching (wood look) door accents and such, upgraded horn, tires, power steering, automatic, 9 in super brakes, pony interior, in great condition, 200 engine, 37,000 original miles

I want new wheels 17"wide and 8" deep. What's the "official" tire size so i know what to look up online?

Im going to tire websites to look up possible tires for my Mustang. But when i "Search By Size" i get lost. im looking for a simple selection of inches and i get all these "LT Metric" or 225 45 and 17.... all i want to know is if i have a 17" wide wheel that is 8" inches deep. what do i need to select on lets say... Michelin.com in order to find the right tires?

What do you think of Matt Smith and Steven Moffat in Doctor Who?

Personally, I think that the Moff has made the show childlike and grownup at the same time. I think Matt Smith has done the same, he's a great actor. I actually think he's better than David Tennant, because he can monologue so well! I mean honestly, David could not have pulled off the stonehenge speech in The Pandorica Opens...what do you think?

I am not getting any taller. I am 5 ft?? Are any of you this height?

I am only 5ft and a half an inch. I feel so short! almost every girl i know is taller than me! I had a doctors appointment today and she said if i grow anymore i will only grow a little bit. my mom is about 5'1 but my dad is probably a foot taller than her and so is my brother. i have a twin sister and she isn't going to grow much either. both of my grandfathers seem tall and my grandmothers are kind of short. one is taller then the other. I guess i wont having to worry about being taller than a guy when i am older. lol. are any of you this height? all grownups i know are taller than me, like my neighbor, she is pretty tall. all women i know are tall. is our generation getting shorter? i know i am only 13, but still. i looked at the charts. hahaha. So anyway, are you guys this tall?

I am scared to drive, what should I do?

You just need practice. But get somebody to go with you that is more encourGing and not a nervous wreck. And also more road like conditions would help instead of a parking lot

I have my behind the wheel driving test tomorrow?

I know how to drive but if I overthink it I know that I'm gonna screW it up. I have it first thing tomOrrow morning and I know my heart is gonna be punding sooo hard I need my license the first time because my parents are never home to take me anywhere so please give me some tips thanks!(:

Was I rude to my ex-roommate's overbearing mother?

i would tell her i apologize if her or her mom were offended, but so were you.Dont leave that out,they should know they were offensive also..well the mom, anyway.

Should I just kick my mom out of my life?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs. and her and my mom have NEVER gotten along. The reason they don't get along is because my gf is black (dominican and puerto rican) and according to my mother "all black people are bad people". Over these past couple of years I have done everything in my power (counseling, talking, fighting, etc.) to try and prove to my mom what a beautiful and wonderful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. Now my gf is 5 mos. pregnant and we told my mom a few weeks ago, she wasn't happy about it and went as far as calling my child a "n*gger baby". I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. Now apparently she went and told the whole family what I said to her and now everyone is calling me and telling me how wrong I am and how I should apologize to her (which I don't plan on doing anytime soon). So I'm assuming she didn't tell them the truth about what happened. I'm just so over her and this whole situation. Should I just say f*ck her and move on with my life? Because I honestly don't know what else to do, plus I'm not bringing my child around her at all until she can prove to me that she has some f*cking sense.

What is a good mountain bike, that won't break the bank?

Okay so I want a decent cheap mountain bike.. You know like, one that doesn't cost $400 or more! I had one of those $150 mongooses, but it was AWFUL! First I had a complete front brake lock up! From just lightly pulling on the front brake lever riding down the road. I don't mean like the wheel locked up because I pulled the brake lever. I mean the brakes locked up and would not come undone. I worked on it for awhile, and I got that fixed. Then I went over a very minor bump in the road at a high speed, I didn't even crash or anything like that! But the stock rims got bent out of shape, and I had to take into the shop for a replacement rim. Then, My back brakes stopped working. It wasn't like they had a catastrophic failure like the front brakes did, they just simply wouldn't work. Well I gave up on trying to fix it for awhile, and spent more time trying to figure out how the brake system worked. I got a pretty good understanding of how the brakes work and I successfully fixed them. However they are already losing alot of tension and fast, and I don't even do alot of hardcore braking. I'm beginning to think it needs a new brake like. Then to finally end it all, today I was riding around. I jumped off of a 5 inch ledge... I kid you not, just 5 inches AT MAX. And that 5 inches was enough to somehow whip the rear derailleur into the spokes, and once that happened it was all over. I don't know how it happens, and I'm 100% sure that I did not hit it on the ledge when I jumped, because I hit the ledge perpendicular, making it litterally impossible for the ledge to have it.. The only thing I could think of is that that little jump was enough to whip it into the spokes. Anyways I'm tired of this piece of junk! What is a decent bicycle (specific model or manufacturer) that wont break the bank, or break when it drops 5 inches?

How can i get my hair to look like this?

my hair is like this- http://img13.imageshack.us/img13/2632/img00385201102041444.jpg. but i want it to look oily nd shiny like this boys http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=acq1iodkj8M&feature=mfu_in_order&list=UL. U HAVE TO FAST FORWARD TO 0.25 TO SEE HIS HAIR. im black nd puerto rican

Is my steering column is acting up?

i own a 1999 Buick park avenue i turn my car on and leave it on (P) If i turn the wheel to the right perfect turn all the way with no clump noise but if i turn the wheel all the way to the left it stops like half way dose not turn fully and it make some clump noise and this only happen when i turn to the left, my car is in need of an alignment. WHaT CoULd It BeE?

How to say happy birthday in spanish..?

Feliz cumplea�os a mi esposo, Carlos. Doy gracias a Dios por poner en mi vida. T� eres mi mejor amigo y un incre�ble padre a nuestros mellizos. Gracias por asumir la responsabilidad como padre y trabajar muy duro para nosotros. Tener un gran d�a. Te amo!

What do u think of the joke i am writting????

Here’s something you don’t know about me yet. I was fifteen years old when I began writing my first jokes, fifteen. Think about that for a minute. That’s old in cat years if they only live for what…10-12 years? They have nine lives, supposedly…I don’t know how long they live, I don’t really care. They are still younger than me. I know a lot of you like to talk to your pets as well. Some of you go a little farther and kiss them. And it’s not just on the head, it’s on the mouth. Don’t try and deny it, I see you. You’re not getting away with anything. I know your desperate, but kissing a pet on the mouth? That’s just…EW, no don’t do that. Did you ever wonder what your pets think about you? I must be like an antique to my cat. I’m sure when I walk by her… I know all of you do this, but when I walk by my cat, she’s not just meowing, right? I believe she’s talking to me in some other type of language that I will never learn. It’s probably a mixture of Italian and gibberish. You know, like baby talk; “Goo-goo gaga… (Giggles)” So she’s not only meowing, ok guys? She’s asking me a very rude question. I know this because I went to a psychiatrist, and asked her what my cat was saying. She told me, that my cat was wondering if I came with or without dust. Yeah, I know, right? I adopted her from a shelter, and this is how she thanks me. I’m like; “Thanks, Speck. I really wanted to be reminded of how old I’m getting.” As a child, I wanted to grow up so fast. I wanted to drive, get a cell… I still don’t have a cell phone, but I wanted to do everything that grownups did. I think a lot of us did as kids. I know you remember sitting in your yard, wishing that time would go by faster. I wanted to be an adult so bad. Then something happened to me. Something happened to you. You know what happened? We got older. And you got to do other things like adults did. But they were never as fun or as cool as you expected. Remember that?

Straight answer please!?

Your chances of getting accepted are very good at San Diego State, San Jose State, and Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. Your chances are good at UC San Diego. UCLA and Berkeley are much harder to get into and most of the students they accept will have grades and test scores similar to yours. A rigorous high school curriculum and a great essay may help you get admitted. If you're male, that might also help. Based on the information you've provided, your chances are fair at UCLA and Berkeley.

Chest tattoo and working out?

I'm planning to get a 3D tattoo on my chest. It's suppose to be three scratches with the Puerto Rican flag in it. I just got back into working out and was wondering, will working out stretch out the tattoo?

WHAT DO YOU THINK OF MY JOKE?

Here’s something you don’t know about me yet. I was fifteen years old when I began writing my first jokes, fifteen. Think about that for a minute. That’s old in cat years if they only live for what…10-12 years? They have nine lives, supposedly…I don’t know how long they live, I don’t really care. They are still younger than me. I know a lot of you like to talk to your pets as well. Some of you go a little farther and kiss them. And it’s not just on the head, it’s on the mouth. Don’t try and deny it, I see you. You’re not getting away with anything. I know your desperate, but kissing a pet on the mouth? That’s just…EW, no don’t do that. Did you ever wonder what your pets think about you? I must be like an antique to my cat. I’m sure when I walk by her… I know all of you do this, but when I walk by my cat, she’s not just meowing, right? I believe she’s talking to me in some other type of language that I will never learn. It’s probably a mixture of Italian and gibberish. You know, like baby talk; “Goo-goo gaga… (Giggles)” So she’s not only meowing, ok guys? She’s asking me a very rude question. I know this because I went to a psychiatrist, and asked her what my cat was saying. She told me, that my cat was wondering if I came with or without dust. Yeah, I know, right? I adopted her from a shelter, and this is how she thanks me. I’m like; “Thanks, Speck. I really wanted to be reminded of how old I’m getting.” As a child, I wanted to grow up so fast. I wanted to drive, get a cell… I still don’t have a cell phone, but I wanted to do everything that grownups did. I think a lot of us did as kids. I know you remember sitting in your yard, wishing that time would go by faster. I wanted to be an adult so bad. Then something happened to me. Something happened to you. You know what happened? We got older. And you got to do other things like adults did. But they were never as fun or as cool as you expected. Remember that?

Is the ride from the waterpark in the movie Grownups real?

The ride where they hang on to handles and slide down then plop in the deep end of a pool? the one that Adam Sandler and them kinda Vs. the "bad guys" on and the one guy goes down by his feet and breaks like his whole body.

Am I ok? Whats going on?

Ofcourse you're ok. You're just getting sexier and it's give way to the mixed italina-spanish sexyness. LOL.If you're confused, a quick checkup at the doc's place won't hurt!

Caring for a disabled gent who gets more than he should?

There, my friend, is the problem with socialist governments. They breed dependency and destroy self-reliance.

Steering wheel makes clicking noise and it kinda feels loose?

whenever i turn my car it makes clicking noise not on minor turns but where i have to turn the steering wheel about 2 times. also it kind of feels loose idk what wrong or what to check its a 2006 Subaru tribeca b9, ne one have ne ideas???

My boyfriend kissed me then brokee up with me three days later..what am i suppost to do?

he kissed me on top of the fairis wheel... i thought he was so sweet then he comes to my house and has one of his friends break up with me.......

Pleeeeeaaaaaase help?!?

I think it's because you two don't really "like" each other. Rather, you and him see it as an opportunity to go around saying you're taken. Relationships in middle school aren't meant to be serious nor are they. No offense, but it seems a little overrated.

How can I make my car handle and corner better?

What can I do to my car that will make it handle better? I want to be able to take corners faster, with the tires glued to the ground. What changes can be made to the suspension, wheels, etc. to aid handling?

Should i take the chance and go on the date with him PLEASE HELP?

You said yourself that you never take chances and stick to your comfort zone. You don't take compliments either. This all tells me that you've put up so many walls around you, probably as some sort of self-preservation technique. You have to stop doing that! Life's all about taking chances. The things we regret most at the end of our lives are the risks we never took. You've met a great guy who's truly into you. Why toss that away just because it isn't part of the "same old, same old" that you always do?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

If you don't care for black people, why date a black girl?

That is truly an interesting question. Unfortunately, I can't answer it because I have never dated out my race and don't find other races attractive. I love my black brothers with all their b.s. and drama.

Third Wheel? Need help!?

I been in a relationship for almost 7 months with my girl and she has a best friend which i dont mind hanging out with her. Everytime we go somewhere like an improv or club, she always comes along and we are trying to find her a boyfriend. I tried getting a boyfriend but she is very picky. I dont understand why she is so picky when she is not a super model herself. What should i do?

When the Obama administration talks about spending $53 billion on high speed rail what makes it more important?

He's doing all this deliberately. No one in their right mind thinks you can spend your way out of debt all the while owing interest on the debt to a nation that hates us. Amtrak is another failed government run project, now he wants to add to it. No one has a job, why would they need high speed rail. He's an idiot.

Would I get results working out like this?

Okay, I have a beach body program "rev abs" and it's a 90 day program, Monday through Saturday.... I work twelve hour warehousew shifts three to four days a week. I tried to this program and ended tiring myself for about a week so I'm going to do another type of workout until I I find another job.. So this is my workout: Monday, wendsday, Friday; I do 30 straight mins of pilatease, Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday; I do squats into shoulder raise/ with 50lbs dumbbells "5x5, and the Ab wheel roller for my abs, and that's it. So do you think I'd get results from this?? I mean hey, some working out is better than nothing....

Need Opinions Please?

Apparently, your track record of cooking hasn't been like a Chef and since there were outside guest, they needed to help you make things right. Your heart was in the right place and you deserve the right to show them you are this responsible but the timing wasn't right. Next time, do not tell them and you go ahead and prepare the meal all by yourself and then let them enjoy what you fix. As they do, you will know then that the next time you tell them the meal is being fixed by you, they will be happy to let you no matter who else is there. You will do good because your heart is in it..

I think that sometimes grownups are meaner than kids .?

grownups do not play with overweight kids because the are embarrassed, then why do kids play with overweight grownups ? is it because kids have more tolerance and respect?

Help on driving? any tips?

Okay so ive been learning how to drive for a while now and at first the problem was braking! either too soon or too latee, and my dad would get frustated so idid even worsee lol the problem now is turning. ikinda went on the curb and iget scared when the steering wheel is turning backk. also ineed help on keeping a steedy speed. so over all ineed help on stopping, turning, an keeping a steady speed. so everything! lol

Should I forgive him or stay mad for a while because it was his fault?

I was at my sisters track meet earlier with my bro his friend I'm also close with and my family. my brother who's about to go to college and my sis who is 2 years younger r like the perfect kids. They get good grades play sports and are popular and are sweet and grownups love them. I'm the stupid middle child and I'm popular and grownups like me but Im fiesty people say. my grades aren't that good and I feel really sensitive when people compare me to them how im not athletic. Anyways my bros friend was like if kayla gets this wordsearch app shed prob be better than me. (hes four years older) and I was like wow you must be dumb. immediately I said wait sorry don't feel bad I'm not smart either it's ok and I was serious and he says u got a 40 on a take-home test I'm not the stupid one. So I look at my bro like WTF?? Why did you tell him. I don't even know how he found out.I HATE being called stupid and having the person mean it. It's not like idk they r smarter. I don't need to be reminded. I was quiet the rest of the meet and was like crying silently because ppl laughed when he announced. Then when they took me home in the car he noticed me crying in the backseat and he was like whoa I'm sorry. And I was like idc. Then we dropped him off and my bro was like umm I'm sorry for telling him and he was trying to say I can buy you food and you can hurt me and I will tell you a secret about him but I'm like I wanna go home. Now I HATE them but his friend just text me saying 'I'm so sorry Kayla I shouldn't have said anything like that u should be mad' stuff like that and now I'm still upset. I know ur probably like y is she making a big deal about a test but it's that he made it a joke to his friends. Sorry this is so long but I'm usually not this sensitive idk today it just really hurt. So should I forgive him or stay mad for a little more while?

Making children look like adults.............?

i agree, its sad seeing little children dressed up and with make up, hair straightened etc when they are just children and should be playng and enjoying their childhood not worrying about how they look. id neverl et my daughter dress inappropriately, when shes an adult its her choice but as a child its not necessary and id be scared of who was looking at her. children should be children, they arent for long so why rush them into growing up because the parents will only look back and wonder where their little girl has gone and regret treating them like a toy.

How do i get my dad to get both my ears pierced?

my dad grew up in a sereous puerto rican family, so hes big on homosexuality, but im not gay! i already have my left ear pierced but i want my other ear pierced! help!

Has Gadhafi fled Libya yet? Did German Chancellor Merkel give obama permission to say Gadhafi must leave?

Obama is totally clueless and everyone in the world knows that now. Well except the Kool-Aid drinkers.

Why are so many puerto rican mothers not teaching?

their children how to speak family but if you ask me its because their ashamed as my mom was am mixed aand most puerto rican, older generation hate rican men i consider myself a latino and not mixed(jewish and black so am more hispanic) and this geneeration is usualy with black dudes idk i asked more than one question

Annoying kids in dramatic movies?

Why oh why, in every dramatic movie, must there be the obnoxious little kid that, in a moment of crisis when everyone is fleeing to safety, suddenly runs back to retrieve a pet or stuffed animal, or otherwise doesn't stay with the grownups like they should, compelling the hero/main protagonist to run back & get them, thus endangering everyone? Examples: "Star Trek Insurrection," where the kid goes back into the cave as it's collapsing. Can you name some others? It's such an annoying plot device!

My grownup neighbor hates me, but our daughters are very good friends. What do I do?

She has been angry at me since I borrowed her steam cleaner and it broke. I paid to have it repaired asap (this was 2 years ago.). She tends to leave her daughter at friends' houses after school until she finishes her work and grocery shopping. Two of our neighbors moved to a different neighborhood so now she's out 2 "free sitters". As soon as we got back from a trip, she and her hubby left their daughter at my house for a play date, then called 2 times to say, "can we have more time out, We're still on a date". Our daughters are still best friends. She speaks nicely to me only in front of other people when I host a gathering for the girls. Otherwise, she just completely ignores me. I get anxious when I see her and have to even be ignored again. What can I do? I try to pray for her, but it's tough. We still have mutual friends, but she has verbally said "I never want you to call me, email me or try to be friends with me. " Got any advice? She'll live down the street from us until someone moves...We're staying put for at least 10 years.

I thought I was black...?

All this time I've thought I was black. This is a serious question. My mom is mixed, white and black, but she looks like a white person. My dad is Puerto Rican. Today I was at this party with a lot of hispanics there. This girl asked me what I was and I said what I just said up there, so basicly black. Her and her friends where all like "blah blah girl you ain't black why you tryin to diss yo latina side. Girl you latina stop playin blah blah" I thought Puerto Rican/hispanic or whatever is black? Because they don't look white or asian so what else are they? Someone enlighten me. Sorry for spelling, I'm on my Ipod. I'm almost 15. Thanks(:

What's your fav 10 movies of all time?

Mine's,Lost boys1&3,Stand by me,Goonies,Rivers edge,Return of the living dead,Dawn of the dead,Alpha dog,The Outsiders,Grownups.

Do adults still bully each other?

like kids do? But, I know adults don't call each other names and tease each other they way like kids do. Is it worse to be bullied as a grownup or a child? and Why?

Please tell me what you think of my chapter start?

Its good as far as material goes but you need to work on flow. Also, try to cut out words like "ever" ("everything that has ever happened in your life) unless it is completely necessary to the ethos. Basically just make it so if you read it out loud, it reads smoothly, that's how you test for good flow.

Why would you suppose there are many conflicting, contradicting, and confused versions of the Osama raid and?

the aftermath? Do we have a bunch of clumsy moron bunglers for leaders? Do we have the right to be told the truth like grownup adults? We should be viewing some proof that leaves no doubt!

Honda anti theft code on radio?

i just financed a 96 honda accord ex from a little delership and i took it home and looked it over including under the hood.....while i was doin so i noticed the battery terminal was covered in thick corrosion i romoved the terminal and cleaned it off and put it back on, with out thinking about the anti theft device on the radio.....now when i turn the radio on it says code and wont let me use it..... i know im supposed to call a honda dealership to get the code but i heard tht cost about 90 dollars which is stupid......im eventually gonna go with a aftermarket cd player but for now i would like to use the stock until then.....does anyone know it the code is located on the back of the deck or if there is a free way to get it without having to call a dealship and deal with there scams? also the top idler pulley wiggles when the car is running but when the car is off i tried wiggleing it with my hand and both the wheel and the nut are tight and wont budge? why would it wiggle while the car is running and is this normal?

Handling Problems on my Motorbike?

"It is a good bike for the Money." I bet you can't find out who actually made the bike. You got what you paid for. Thanks for hurting american Jobs.

Should I stop talking to my mom?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs. and her and my mom have NEVER gotten along. The reason they don't get along is because my gf is black (dominican and puerto rican) and according to my mother "all black people are bad people". Over these past couple of years I have done everything in my power (counseling, talking, fighting, etc.) to try and prove to my mom what a beautiful and wonderful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. Now my gf is 5 mos. pregnant and we told my mom a few weeks ago, she wasn't happy about it and went as far as calling my child a "n*gger baby". I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. Now apparently she went and told the whole family what I said to her and now everyone is calling me and telling me how wrong I am and how I should apologize to her (which I don't plan on doing anytime soon). So I'm assuming she didn't tell them the truth about what happened. I'm just so over her and this whole situation. Should I just say f*ck her and move on with my life? Because I honestly don't know what else to do, plus I'm not bringing my child around her at all until she can prove to me that she has some f*cking sense.

Broken car axel studs related question?

Last Sunday i was doing a wheel rotation i accidentally broke three studs on one rotor set and that wheel is now being supported by two nuts, not mine but the cars and i was just wondering if it is safe at speeds over 80 kmh.

Who played this person in the movie grownups?

Who play the son of lenny(adam sandler) in the movie grownups? i mean the one who helped him with basketball not the other one please help...thanks

A second red riding hood?

My family thinks by the way they ended it that they are going to make a second one. What's your input? Also, do you think she got pregnant after Peter and her had sex? I don't think its anything like twilight, its more of a grownup movie in certain parts.

What are the best off road rims/wheels?

i just bought a new 2011 jeep wrangler sport two door and i want to buy it some good off road rims and tires

Friday, July 15, 2011

Is my 4WD engaging?1991 F150 5 spd?

I just bought a 1991 F150 4X4 5 speed trans. Auto hubs stick 4X4. When i shift into 4hi or 4lo the light comes on but there is no noise what so ever. is this normal or is it the hubs? I also tried to test it but can't really tell if the front wheels are turning or not. When i did put it in 4lo you could tell the tcase was working.

Should I Continue Pursuing Her?

honestly, just **** her. once you do it youll probably be done with her and not get fired for interjob relationships.

For my 14th party i want it to be fancy dress, ideas?

just get something from debs and your verry lucky too be 13 i no i am but my best friend trunt 13 one week ago and died on the 21st r.i.p madyson law

Sports Steering wheel?

Steering wheels are used in most modern land vehicles, including all mass-production automobiles as well as light and heavy trucks. The steering wheel is the part of the steering system that is manipulated by the driver; the rest of the steering system responds to such driver inputs. This can be through direct mechanical contact as in recirculating ball or rack and pinion steering gears, without or with the assistance of hydraulic power steering, HPS, or as in some modern production cars with the assistance of computer controlled motors, known as Electric Power Steering. With the introduction of federal vehicle regulation in the United States in 1968, FMVSS 114 required the impairment of steering wheel rotation (or transmission locked in "park") to hinder motor vehicle theft; in most vehicles this is accomplished when the ignition key is removed from the ignition lock

Have you ever wet yourself as a grownup?

LoL never wet myself as a grown up but i was once in a busy bar watching a soccer match and had to fart, or at least that's what i thought, it turned out to be diarrhea, i ended up walking straight out and home, i could feel it going down my leg, too much detail probably for you folks. !!

What to wear to school when I have a dress code :// (10 Mega Points)?

I'm so sorry. This place seems horrible. It strips away your total self-expression. Hopefully this is a Catholic school or other Parochial school, because there is Absolutelyy nothing wrong with Satanism. It's just another religion. God damn these schools. Try Button up shirts in cool colors into bootcut jeans or high waisted shorts.

How do you balance a bmx bike?

By balance I mean make it weigh evenly I think it's all about the weight o your wheels being the same but I'm not quite sure

Is it normal to feel stupid after having the first driving lesson?

I teach and I tell the driving student to say out loud what they are doing example I am bring my foot up slowly on the clutch until i feel the car wanting to go and then I am letting the clutch out faster as the car moves ~~

Should I stop talking to my mom?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs. and her and my mom have NEVER gotten along. The reason they don't get along is because my gf is black (dominican and puerto rican) and according to my mother "all black people are bad people". Over these past couple of years I have done everything in my power (counseling, talking, fighting, etc.) to try and prove to my mom what a beautiful and wonderful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. Now my gf is 5 mos. pregnant and we told my mom a few weeks ago, she wasn't happy about it and went as far as calling my child a "n*gger baby". I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. Now apparently she went and told the whole family what I said to her and now everyone is calling me and telling me how wrong I am and how I should apologize to her (which I don't plan on doing anytime soon). So I'm assuming she didn't tell them the truth about what happened. I'm just so over her and this whole situation. Should I just say f*ck her and move on with my life? Because I honestly don't know what else to do, plus I'm not bringing my child around her at all until she can prove to me that she has some f*cking sense

Y are the spanish women so ghetto compared to women from spain?

puerto rican girls or dominican girls...same thing are so ghetto in NY.each have 6 kids before the age of 23.spain women in NY are so classy,professional,family type.Y are puerto rican, domincan women turning into black women?

Charmed next Generation?

If they ever tried to bring "Charmed" back, with a future generation of Halliwell's, I think they would keep the tradition of naming all the female children with P's. There's already Wyatt and Chris Halliwell, so if Phoebe and Paige ever had any daughters, they would stick with P names.

Am I doing the right thing?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 yrs. and her and my mother have never gotten along. They don't get along because my mom hates my gf because she is black (Dominican and Puerto Rican). My mom seems to think "all black people are bad people". A couple weeks ago me and my gf told my mom that we're having a baby and she wasn't happy about it at all. She even went as far as calling my baby a "n*gger baby" and I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. I have done everything in my power (counseling, talking, fighting, etc.) to prove to my mom what a beautiful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. So for my families sake I decided to cut ALL ties with my mother. Am I doing the right thing?

Bunch of hamster Stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

post this in your [local] section on craigslist. Alot More people in your area will see it. Not as many people in your area will see it on here...

I dont want to be dark skinned?

i am Puerto Rican , Italian , Columbian , and Indian but i have dark skin. My mom is very light but my dad is kinda dark. I really hate being dark. It makes me sad. My moms family picks on me,people in school pick on me , my friends pick on me. Kids in my school ask what race i am and i literally get into arguments with people trying to convince them that i'm not black or Dominican. I am a rocker type chick. I like to rave , mosh , go to concerts and wild party's , listen to hard core music , techno , and dumb-step. But to alot of people think darker girls don't do those types of things making it harder for me to fit it. So when i'm with my friends i feel like an outcast because there all so light and im the only dark one. Not all of them are white (Caucasian) but there all light skinned It makes me cry because i feel like i don't fit it anywhere. I'm kinda a white person on the inside but people see a black person on the outside. Also i always feel like i could never attract my type of guy because im dark and it seems like all the guys i like are into white girls. I really don't know what to do. Is there anything i can do to make myself lighter. Do you have any advice for me at all. I feel pretty depressed about now.

Is a buick lesabre a good car?

Hi im 15 and a girl and I don't know much about cars. I've been saving money from my job for a year and now I can afford to get a car, but I'm rather clueless about them. I'll have a guy friend teach me about them more i guess but I was wondering about this car, it's for $1900 so is it a good car? I'm assuming it's 2 wheel drive? Well is there anything I should know... don't worry I'll ask alot of people their opinions before i buy it xD thanks everyone for answers. Oh and btw it's white. :P

Do you think i can pull this style off ..?

hey my names shelby and im 14. im puerto rican and ive always had a nornal girl style, like (american eagle, sandals, floral clothing, girly.. etc) and im thinking about going a little bit more ghetto and have a little more swag to my style. Im hispanic, and i dont even really talk to the hispanics at my highschool, because my style is very oppositebto theirs. Also, im kinda shy and thats like the opposite of hispanic girls. Hispanic girls are more loud and outgoing. im usually with the girly hispanics or (no offense) ,white girls. Im going to buy sneakers like jordans. The hispanics in my school are popular and they have a lot of friends. But im not really popular because i just moved to this state and i dont know anyone. I just want more friends and i think being with them will make me more popular. And theyre my own people so i think i will fit in with them easily. What do you think? Will i easily fit into this "latina" ghetto girl style?

What is the best method to remove grownup female breasts?

I think a stanley knife is prob the way to go...don't do this without giving it proper thought!!! You might live to regret it...If you do go ahead with the removal you could get them stuffed and mount them above the fire!!! They would look nice!!

Could I dye my hair this color without it looking blonde?

i think it would look fine with your skintone, i just think your gonna have a hard time getting it that color, but good luck

Tell me your opinion of this?

I'm about to be 13 and I wanna be able to just go to the movies hang out with friends then come back simple as that. But my parents dissagree , I'm very mature for my age and I know not to talk to strangers. I don't ever get in trouble , But my mom thinks because we're Puerto Rican we don't believe in that. It sucks seeing all my friends going out having fun and I just stay home. I clean and help around the house , and have my own money to spend. How can I convince my mom , and do you agree with her? :| I just want to be a normal 13 year old. That's all i'm asking for..

Help! How can I convince my younger brother to give up on his stupid idea?

Somebody needs to go with him to make sure that this is actually the type of person he thinks it is and not some old perv who likes cute teenage boys.

What do you think is the median age of a Harry Potter fan ?

It took her 10 years to complete the series, so the age of the fans changed considerably. The books and the actors in the movies grew up with the original fans. It's a once in a lifetime phenomenon that no one can really explain.

How can i make my 1998 Toyota Tacoma sound like a Civic?

ok so i have a 1998 toyota tacoma 4cyl 2.4l.. just rear wheel drive. so far i put a set of rims and a billet grill on the truck and inside new seats and a sub and radio. i want to put an exhaust on it. i want to go with something really loud.. like an exhaust on a Honda civic.. i think they call them"tin cans"... but does any one have a recommendation and what exactly do they call this type of exhaust

What are your thoughts of the Puerto Rican culture?

F*** it. I'll stick to America thank you very much. So illegals, stop yacking on in Spanish and stop waving your flags!

Help me explain to my son? (sort of long, sorry)?

Dont let him be a lazy, whiney little puke. If he got off his *** and started doing anything productive it would make your lives a whole lot easier. Throw HIM out until he has something to contribute, keep his fiance

Power steering not working?

My car's (1999 Chrysler Concorde 2.7L) power steering isn't working. The car was sitting for about a year and I have got it back to running. The power steering isn't working on it. When the car is running I can see inside the pump and see the fluid turning inside but the wheel is hard to turn unless driving at a low/high speeds. I'm wondering do I need a new pump or another problem?? Any help would be great thanks..

Highlight Suggestions ?

Im puerto rican with very curly hair . My hair is a dark brown/light brwn(in the sun) . Lol . But I need suggestions for highlight colors ? Thanks(:

Do Latino/Hispanic guys and white guys like mixed race girls?

I've always been attracted to Latino/Hispanic guys and white guys. But where I live there are only a few people comfortable with dating outside their race. I'm mixed with black, Native American, Puerto Rican, and white heritage. Most people think I'm half black and half Puerto Rican, because I have the hair of a black person, but I'm light skinned. When I tell people that I'm Native American and white people are REALLY surprised that I'm part white. I know this is kind of a stupid question, but I can't help my curiosity.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Woman who cares for my grownup son calls him and his friend chldren?

I have a woman who cares for my autistic son, who is 29, and although functioning less than average for his age, is still an adult and should be treated with dignity and not referred to as a child. She has a son who is 26 and she always tells her son not to interrupt in "grownup conversations" and tries to constantly tell him what to do. My son goes over there on weekends and she caters to and babies my son and treats him as if he is 9 and says go put your jammies on, etc. I told her I do not think we (meaning her and I) are good for our sons when we don't treat them as adults, and she said they are chldren in the mild. True to a point, but they will never reach their true potential, being treated as this. Should I keep my son from being around her as much? Today, I went to pick him up and she said "Michael has icky stuff on his shirt and it needs to be wiped off immediately." I said he can do it himself. She said don't be harsh and it needs to be wiped off and she grabbed a shirt and wiped it off. I think she should have said Michael you have something on your shirt and let him choose to wipe it off. Her son also watches porn and smokes and she goes crazy when she finds stuff like that out. I think they are adults and should be given the right to watch porno and smoke if that is their choice, even though I don't think either is good for their health. I just think they should be treated as if they were adults and not treated like they are five. What do you think?

Small Nine year old, weighs almost 50 pounds, booster seat?

Okay, I have been reading some of the discussion boards on "How long to keep your child in a car/booster seat." Many mothers still have their child in a seat, due to their size, at the age of ten. My son is pretty short and weight almost 50 pounds, I must admit he hasn't been in a seat for a couple years now, at least. In fact if I tried to get him in a booster seat i'm afraid he'd be mortified. He's at that age where everything he does has to be "cool" and seem "grownup". Now I now this isn't an excuse and the consequences of not being in a seat would/ could far surpass the sillyness. But I can't help but think 9 is too old for a carseat! I mean, half our parents never even straped us in...and we were still here. Any opinions on this? When did you say goodbye to the booster seat?

Was the movie "The Dilemma" any good?

Haven't seen the film but here's a list of reviews a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1578275/" rel="nofollow"http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1578275//a

What are some words you would use to describe Kurt Cobain's art and his overall feel to his imagery?

He was very depressed and had lot of passion for that depression and used that passion to create great music.

Need Opinions Please?

Just tell them you want to try cooking a meal by yourself, and if they don't like it they can order a pizza. And you can pay

Should I stop talking to my mom?

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs. and her and my mom have NEVER gotten along. The reason they don't get along is because my gf is black (dominican and puerto rican) and according to my mother "all black people are bad people". Over these past couple of years I have done everything in my power (counseling, talking, fighting, etc.) to try and prove to my mom what a beautiful and wonderful person my gf is, but she just doesn't want to hear it. Now my gf is 5 mos. pregnant and we told my mom a few weeks ago, she wasn't happy about it and went as far as calling my child a "n*gger baby". I wasn't having that so I blew up and ended up cussing my mom out. Now apparently she went and told the whole family what I said to her and now everyone is calling me and telling me how wrong I am and how I should apologize to her (which I don't plan on doing anytime soon). So I'm assuming she didn't tell them the truth about what happened. I'm just so over her and this whole situation. Should I just say f*ck her and move on with my life? Because I honestly don't know what else to do, plus I'm not bringing my child around her at all until she can prove to me that she has some f*cking sense.

Does it cost extra to text someone from puerto rico?

I have an unlimited plan from Tmobile. My friend who also lives here in the US just went for a vacation in puerto rico.. she also has unlimited. Will it cost extra to text her while he's over there? I mean he doesnt necessarily live there nor does he have a puerto rican telephone line.. Verizon to be exact. soo does it cost?

Can she use texts against me?

I have court in a few weeks about getting joint custody of my son. His mother constantly provoked me through texts and voice mails to the point where i would text back and argue with her. She is claiming that a few days ago, on the way to a child support mediator, i threatened her life, told her i was gonna get someone to whoop her ***, and grabbed the steering wheel and jerked her off the road. I did none of the above. I did yell and scream after she started with me. Then she left me at a store 30 miles from my house. I dont blame her. But she says she is going to use our angry text conversations in court to show i am mentally unstable when all i was saying was i wanted time with my son and she refused.

A sexy yet classic pin-up(ish) look?

This is the look I love! I try to do extremes, something VERY pin-up with something VERY modern. Pick the things you love about pin up and do them ALL THE WAY, then use modern thing with them. Example- if I have a modern dress that isn't pin up, I will put it with pin up shoes and red lipstick with a flower in my hair. Or I will go with a very pin up dress that almost looks like a costume with very modern hair/makeup/Accessories. This way you can show your trendiness with your own vintage style (and unique to you)

Is it good to use soy bean and olive oil in your hair as a moisturizer ?

Olive oil is great for the hair but it doesn't moisturize it seals in moisture. But, you can do a hot oil treatment for some reason moisturizes. I don't understand that logic but it makes my hair feel soft!

Is insidious really scary?

Especially for someone that's never seen a horror movie? My friends coming to the movies for the first time. Shes not crazy-sensitive but shes not used to grownup movies.

Can i fit 20 inch c squared c1 rims on a 2002 mitsubishi galant?

i just got the car and is currently getting it painted and was wondering what exactly to look in for when i buy rims for it i know i want 20 inch wheels but wonder if the c squared c1 rims will fit it? please help and i plan on getting 225/30/20 -225/35/20 tire which would y'all recommend?

Is there any way to make your permanent teeth grow faster ?

Okay so I am 13 years old. I am getting braces soon! Actually on the 13th of April. But on the 6th of April, I am getting 3 baby teeth pulled and I still have a gap from where my grown up tooth hasn't grown in yet. One of the teeth they are pulling, they are pulling the grownup tooth down in place so it will be fine. But I will have 3 gaps while having braces and they will look ridiculous ! Only 1 of them will be visible, bit I still don't want gaps in my teeth while having braces. Is there any way I can make the permanent teeth grow in faster ? (:

Will I pass my driving test if my car AC is broken?

My mom is telling me I won't because everything is suppose to be working when I go for the behind the wheel test.

Why dont christmas feel the same?

im 15 and i remember christmas being the best time of the year but for some reason it doesn't have that extreamly exciting feeling no more my parents leave out christmas presents before christmas now. they say thats what grownups do but thats not it and its not like im not getting alot of presents this year either cuz im getting alot. enyone else feel this way

Does anybody really know were i can watch bad teacher.?

I have been looking for days now trying to find this movie bad teacher. Every time someone goes on here and asks if anyone knows were they can watch it i follow the links from the answers to there question, none of them work. does anybody truly know were the h e double hockey sticks i can find this movie i am broke and in a wheel chair and staying home is killing me. please somebody give me a movie outlet

Survey: Name something people are afraid to do the first time?

I was afraid to drive the first time I got behind the wheel. Not so much drive but TURN. I was petrified to make a turn, my poor dad almost had a coronary lol

Nationalities eligible for more then 3 months (visa)?

Hi i live in America but my nationality Puerto Rican so if i where to sign an application for a visa to Japan would say i was American or Puerto Rican? And if so, ether way could i extend my months in japan to 6 months at Tokyo Immigration Bureau Nagoya or would it matter on my nationality?

Best cruising longboard. ?

I am going to start college and I don't want to use my zero traditional trick board to travel on campus. I want a cruising board. Something that I can weave real good with and something that looks like an old skool California style surfs up kind of board. No tricks or bombing hills. No need where I'm from. Just real chill "enjoy the ride" type of feel. Weight is not that much of a problem; I'm a big guy. Need to know what style of deck, trucks, wheels, and bearings I need for the ultimate cruising longboard. Thanks. I just need this board to get from AtoB ;)

If you are only 15, would writing a book with sex, drugs, and bad language be inappropriate?

I love writing realistic books with all of the above in them. But I can't help to think if this is too grownup for a girl my age. It is not like I do not know about these things...because I do, and that is what is so cool about it. Because these things happen all the time....Am I a bad person?

How do I take control of my life if I can't get myself to work for it?

Joining the Military would be a great idea because they would teach you discipline but with things the way the are I would advise against it. I saw you said that you don't think you could work at home how about a home business that has a very low start up of $25 to start and $10 per month. If you know three people who know three people and so on who like freebies you cannot miss with this opportunity. The only reason I say this is because I had been in this same situation a couple months ago I had been out of work living with my mom with my kids and just could not find a job and things just did not seem to be looking up for me at all I came across this site and decided that I had to give this a try. I was so broke I did not even have $25 to start I had to borrow it I put it on a prepaid debit card and signed up then I told all my friends and they signed up and before I knew it I had made $2800 in two weeks. Then I purchased some business cards and put magnet signs on my car and it has been such a success you will be surprised how many people will sign up for the business just because they offer free stuff and the fact that they can make money doing it don't hurt much either. To make a long story short I am back on my own getting ready to try an purchase a home and I have residual income coming in every month now. All my bills getting paid no help from MOM (Thanks MOM but I can take it from here) L.O.L...I hope this helps you and if you want to sign up check out my site below. GOOD LUCK AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!!

What Is The Best Way To Straighten The Chain Wheel On My 18 Gear Bike?

Hi. I have slightly bent the chain wheel on my 18 speed bicycle. It's the triple gear type. Any one know if I can straighten it without taking it off? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Many Thanks. Baby Girl

How old were you when you realized that the world wasn't like you thought it was? That...?

I don't remember felling that way. I always understood that I was being fed the brightest and prettiest side of things, and I found out early just how dark things could be. Of course after getting through the average hormonally explosive puberty and young adulthood I find that being happy really is a choice. I choose to see the happy world I want to see...I know the bad is out ther, but I focused on it for 20 years and now I just don't care any longer.

Why do people like being around THEIR OWN?

Yeah, I believe so too. It's mostly human nature though and comfort and security in being somewhat similiar to others around you, whether it be income brackets, race, etc, etc.

I dont know how I should feel or what I should do PLEASE HELP?!!!!?

(LONG BUT COPE WITH ME) My grandma had been sick 4 sometime. Dr finally found out wat was wrong & had back surgery. My oldest aunt is the one who always took my grandma to the dr appointments. since I am currently unemployed (by choice). I have decided to go along with them to dr appointments. I was once a translator for drs & patients for after hr services. my aunt thought it would be a good idea if i started to come to all the appt. i didnt mind i like helping my grandma & anyone who needs translating. by the time of my gmas surgery they needed someone who spoke english&knew my gmas med hitory. all my aunts & uncles & my grandpa dont speak english. and my grandma is 82 & illiterate. so i said i can go in with her. i was with her for about 3 hrs translating, signing papers and explaining things to my gma. was with her in preop room.saw her go in the operating room. surgeon called me on cell to let me know how everything went when surgery was over etc. ive been following up with the drs. i am practically the only person who knows dr names and her rx info. there were some complications in my gmas surgery & in order to save her life they had to put in a IVC filter. i explained to my gma and she said its fine sweety sign...i did. everything was a success! I noticed my uncle the youngest of my gmas children started acting distant & stopped talking to me. today he came to my house being quiet and ok... then out of nowhere... he starts telling my aunt and my mom that they should have someone responsible making decisions for their mother! my mom got mad since im her daughter & was like no one is making decisions for mom she is. he said no! one of you guys should be taking care of her.... not someone who is going to change their mind and not be responsible. i said your talking about me and i dont make decisions for my grandma i explain things to her she decides 4 herself... he was like no you make decisions for her. tell her what she needs and what she has to do. it got heated up he started calling names & pointing fingers.i honestly only tell my grandma what the doctors tell her to do... which is to walk & not be laying down all the time because she needs the exercise.i tell her to eat because she doesn't really eat. i tell her to wear her back brace. etc. my gma doesnt want to she says shes too weak still ITS BEEN OVER A MONTH... she refuses to do any exercises complains about pains & doesnt want to leave the house without her wheelchair. BUT she tells my uncles & doctors she feels no pain at all that shes fine now & exercises & lies pretty much. i tell her doctors what she tells me.dr said its common her old age scared of getting sent back to hospital but they have ordered transportation for her so she doesnt get up from wheel chair when going to dr appts & i dont drive so its easier for me to go w/her & not depend on anyone giving us a ride. he volunteered (my uncle)to help her & encourage her to walk by coming over every day. something he hasnt done i told him he can but that the physical therapist was going to start coming soon bcus thats something the surgeon ordered in home physical therapy. ANYWAY he offended me said i am not responsible too young (23) and that i change my mind a lot about things &that im really a nobody to be taking care of his mother or making decisions for her. and that one of my grandmas daughters should be doing all of what i am doing instead of me. because im not reliable & he doesnt trust me. he yelled said bad words. called my aunt & mom names. i told him that i only tell the drs what she says but he wouldnt listen he said he would perfer my grandma to be at my other cousins house. & we all know that cousin doesnt want my gma at her house but he doesnt understand that. my mom told him that if he doesnt like me doing everything i do why doesnt he take care of her. he said he cant and blah blah it all lasted 2 hours of yelling,, screaming. & my gma defended him said we shouldnt upset her son he gets mad quick that we attacked him. he said he was never coming over to any of our houses anymore... it was crazy! my question is if he comes over... how should i act? what should i tell him? he has done other ****** up things to me & talked **** about me & my dad and mom before. but this! i mean come on!!! should i never speak to him again? should i be ok & not take it personal he is her son..wouldn't anyone else be kind of thankful im doing all of this? even my gmas social worker said shes surprised no one else knows anything about my grandma & that she likes dealing with me. I feel sad...angry...disappointed and offended. what would you guys do in my shoes? i feel so unwanted by him and kind of by some of my other aunts& cousins because im closest to my gma. he thinks im not responsible because he has seen me get drunk in the past and i like to go on long weekends... but i swear even on long weekends i call her drs. even the bf thinks i worry to much...HELP ME sorry it was very

What should i do for my husband for valentines day ?

We been married for a yrs. Been together for nine. Well I know ima get a room for us for 1 and a half day. But what else any good plans. I want to have something real sexy grownup type **it going on ya know

Swinging the bat.....c/c?

Strong opening but then you seemed to wander in the middle although your ending made me wonder if you had started with the baseball metaphor and then delved into the feelings and came back to the baseball three strikes at the end? Perhaps just me, as usual!

I had the ball joints replaced in my Jeep Liberty and now the front passanger tire is making noises, why?

Take it back and talk to the manager and explain that to him... I think your being taken for a ride... Also take it to another Mechanic and ask him to check it for you... Have him write a work order up... Then take it bake to the other guy...

HP Colour Laser Jet 2840 how to switch to use toner instead of drum?

I urgently need to print incoming faxes on the HP 2840, however the black ink drum as run out. I was wondering whether its possible to print using the coloured toners in the wheel? If so I don't know how to do this. Can you please help?

Who played this person in the movie grownups?

Who play the son of lenny(adam sandler) in the movie grownups? i mean the one who helped him with basketball not the other one please help...thanks

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

In nascar 09 i use a steering wheel and run 27.5 or .6 at atlanta i need help to run 27.4 w/wheel?

i scrub so much speed on exit ill ride 184 till i get to exit the corner it drops straight down to 180

How to find an amateur German photographer of the Beskidy region and its people in Poland during a Second War?

I am looking for the list of amateur photographers shooting during a second war mainly in Poland, in the mountain region. There is one picture, which would have a little girl at the Spinning Wheel, taken in 1944 or something about. I just wonder if it is possible to track such photo and if it was ever developed. The girl would be around 5 year old and she is sitting by the small children spinning wheel made by my grand, grand father. The girl is my mum. I do not know were to start the search and if it is something feasible to find.

Is it a big problem that my passport was already expired and i was not able to renew it on time?

i know that the next schedule of Embassy on Wheels is on sept.17&18 so its already 6 months late

Drastic change before school?

Okay, so im becoming a freshman in highschool and I really want to get a hair cut or hair dye, I want to dye it darker. But I have Puerto Rican hair thats very thick and I straighten a lot. Ive never dyed my hair before except for highlights(thin ones) which I did once. Im afraid if I dyed it all over that it would become very brittle and harder to manage. Would it do that too if I got thick highlights? help please.

Is it true that driving requires all your senses to work together?

let me preempt you, you want to be able to drive all these types of vehicle perfectly well any time, well if this is the case, i think this might be tough. to be candid your driving can only be smooth on one of type vehicle that you stayed with, as long as you are doing off and on with other type of vechile, each instance you come back your senses will struggle to adjust it natural.

Can something hurt years after you injure it?

I got into a car accident in 2008 and my right knee smashed into the front of the car, like the paneling underneath the steering wheel. I wasn't injured at all, no cuts or anything. The EMTs checked my leg at the scene and said it was ok; they asked if I wanted to go the hospital and get it x-rayed or something but I said no. For the past year or so, I've been getting pains on and off in my knee. They can get pretty bad. It doesn't matter if I'm walking or moving it or not. I haven't injured it at all since the accident. It seems almost random. I haven't been to the doctor about it yet. Since it's the same knee, is it possible that this pain is from the car accident, even if it happened such a while ago? Thanks.

Help me with a thesis statement!!?

Unfortunately, it would be nearly impossible for us to formulate a thesis statement for you because we have no idea what it is you are going to say. Where are you going with the commentary? What points do you wish to make? I can see something like, "Amichai in his poem (name) attempts to communicate the increasing responsibility that comes with maturity. " or some such blather as that. But again without knowing your direction in the commentary, we cannot formulate a cogent thesis statement. Sorry.

Would there be any value in having a Yahoo! Answers for grownups?

In general I love having an unedited internet as much as possible, but after a few months on Answers I realize I am spending all my time here stepping over the bubble gum... "do i look cute in this?" "does this mean he likes me?" "how dew i spel this werd?" etc. All of that is great, I dont begrudge the kiddos their space, but sometimes I wonder what it would be like if there were a website where serious and thoughtful people could speak and reply as adults. It wouldnt just be about age of course, more about quality of content. Spam and rants would not be welcome and one word replies wont pass. We would have to get around the endless politics and religion arguments somehow, just like in any conversation. Am I just dreaming here, or is there a place online for real thought and speech? Could it be done?

My best friend got a new best friend and forgot about me...?

Sounds like her mom's the problem. If her mom never liked you, then that makes things worse. You can do better. Don't waste the summer worrying about spilled milk. At least you're not some crazy pregnant woman.

Please can i have a sensible grownup answers plz :)?

well, i have a very skinny neck and you can see my bones, and people are always commenting`, and i would like it to be abit meatier and not so boney, is thye any foods i can do or is they anything else i could try, exept from medication ?

Can I make it to the NBA if I started basketball at the 17?

I play ball like everyday nd I got way better for the last 2months nd I'm kinda short 5'9 nd rican...I have a jump shot nd can take it to the reck sometimes I just need a lil more better ball handling can you give me some tips thanks

My mum has vascular dementia and alzheiemers isaw her 4 weeks ago she could walk slowely talk and cook small m?

she as just gone into a home and now cant do anything they have to lift her into wheel chairs feed her she cant even hold a cup as become incontinant it is so sad to see to see my mum like this i would rather she would die in her sleep how long do people last suffering like this

Neon Lighting on 2006 Chevy Tahoe Z71?

I just got for my 16th b-day a used 2006 Chevy Tahoe Z71, we just started customizing it 2 my taste. i want to put neon lights or neon strobe lighting under the car, in the grill, under the dash and steering wheel or universal lighting. I wanna know, will this run down my battery or what will it do?

Non-speaking spanish, but still full blood Puerto Rican?

My parents moved to the states from Puerto Rico before I was born. I am not fluent in spanish, unfortunately. I recently encountered some rasisim towards this and funny looks as if I'm not Latina enough in my looks or in my personality and what not. I grew up only knowing my culture. Anyways, whatever, Point is, have you ever expireienced this or seen this?

How do I get tight curly hair like a rican or black without a perm?

At first you try a hair wand .Curlers are prof your best you make any type of curl.You would like with it .

Do adults still bully each other?

like kids do? But, I know adults don't call each other names and tease each other they way like kids do. Is it worse to be bullied as a grownup or a child? and Why?

I need ideas for my small bedroom?

I am 16 and my sister is 8 and we both share a small bedroom. I need decorating and organizational ideas that not only make my room seem bigger, but also help keep away all the clutter that we have going on right now. I hate walking into my room and feeling bombarded with all of my stuff...and it's embarrassing when I have people over and I know they feel the same way. I need something that not only comes off as grownup and organized for me, but also something fun and pretty for my little sister :) Thanks!

What did you think of the movie Red? ?

I want to rent the movie red on my iPod. I don't know what my parents would think of the movie, I looked up the reveiws, and it said "brief strong language" how bad is the language? And is it just language and violence that its rated pg-13 for? Oh, and btw, I'm almost 12, but I was aloud to watch the show lost (tv-14), grownups (pg-13) and I saw dinner for schmucks with my friend and they were fine with it (pg-13)

Simple hamster cage without wheel ?

i have a hamster cage but i want a silent spinner in it but theres not enough room so i want to get a simple cage with no wheel or a wheel that comes off . I just want to attach that simple cage to the one i have now so i dont really want much in it . Does the critter universe ECO wheel come off ? Cuz if it does ill get that but anywhere you know where i can buy a cheapppppp cage like that ? Thanks (:

My car sounds terrible but when i took it to mechanic he says there's nothing wrong?!!!?

Maybe you had on some crappy radio station, that cRap music or that cRock stuff makes a lot of unnecessary noise

How To Keep My Hair Flat And Curly?

I'm Puerto Rican And African American And I Just Need Help Because I Don't Want My Curly Hair To Puff At All When I Say At All I Mean No One Bit, So Please Help ! Thanks :)

Was this a pity invite from my GF? 10 points!?

I don't think it was a pity invite, I think she would like to see you and is prob sorry she isn't having a night just with you so has invited you out with her and her friends, maybe you could take your girlfriend and her fronds to see some fire works with Your friend and then go out from there?

Will the TPMS from my steel wheels work on the new wheels I bought for my Mazda 3?

I have a 2011 Mazda 3 and they currently have the stock 16" steel wheels with TPMS. I bought a set of OEM Mazda snowflake wheels that don't come with TPMS. My question is, if I transfer the TPMS from the steel wheels to the snowflake wheels, will there be any problems?

"popples" stuffed animal for autistic big brother?

i'm 16 my bro is 17. any grownups out there remember popples cartoon. these little furry things would curl up into a ball and then pop out. now i don't even know where to find these damn things, considering they were popular over 10 yrs ago. can't go on ebay cuz i'm a kid so i don't have a credit card to buy anything online. sorry for takin so long. i just really wanna get 1 for my bro, he loves them.

If a Puerto Rican woman has a baby by a Dominican man can the baby get away as being a Brazilian?

I have no idea why you are asking this question but the answer is probably yes. Having been to Brazil and seen what a melting pot it is of different ethnic backgrounds then I'm sure the baby could pass.

Why is there still racism in the world?

I just don't understand it. So i tried dating a country white guy (who was not all that intelligent so it didn't work out) and some of his family had a problem with him dating a black person. I'm mostly Puerto Rican and then i have a little bit of black and..well a little bit of everything in me to say the least. I don't understand it at all! Why do people still care about race in a relationship??

A sexy yet classic pin-up(ish) look?

This is the look I love! I try to do extremes, something VERY pin-up with something VERY modern. Pick the things you love about pin up and do them ALL THE WAY, then use modern thing with them. Example- if I have a modern dress that isn't pin up, I will put it with pin up shoes and red lipstick with a flower in my hair. Or I will go with a very pin up dress that almost looks like a costume with very modern hair/makeup/Accessories. This way you can show your trendiness with your own vintage style (and unique to you)

Neon shaking when driving low speed what is cause?

Hi so i noticed today while driving at about 25-45 the car has this annoying minor shake when i drive its not a huge shake but it seems like it wobbles the car a little, at about 50 i ride smooth and there is no shake but the shake comes back when i decelerate, i just got new tires on the front and balanced them so i doubt it is not those it has to be the rear tires, today while driving my cook told me that my passenger wheel had a little wobble in it not huge but a little? any idea anyone?

Could I ever have a blonde haired child?

Theres a higher probability of your child having brown hair but yes, blonde is next in line. Either he will have light brown or blonde.

Puerto rican flag on a hoodie?

ayeee puerto rican pride! lol. but anyways, yes, you can get it done in the mall, it depends what mall you go to though. they may have the airbrushing in one of the little mall stands, they usually do. you can get the flag airbrushed. you can also go online and create your own shirt on districtlines.com or go to this link : a href="http://www.zazzle.com/puerto+rican+flag+gifts" rel="nofollow"http://www.zazzle.com/puerto+rican+flag+…/a

My best friend never invites me places!?

You should make a party and not invite them. This will be a lesson for them. When they are not invited, they will feel your pain. Good Luck!

Looking for red f150 red for hit and run?

a red F150 loaded, fancy wheels, designs on side, hit a parked car in walmart parking lot on june 23, 2011. 3 witnessess and video from walmart cameras. please help me find him. Police claim they can not

Abs wheel sensor question?

Ok my abs light comes on alot, especially when it rains. That means I have a bad wheel Sensor right? Well how do I know which one to change? Or can I clean them all? Can a dirty sensor be the problem? the light usually comes on when I first start the truck and when I come to a dead stop, put it in park then back to drive the light goes off. But other times it will come on as I'm stoping and the pedal vibrates. I have a 1998 s-10 blazer.

Behind the wheel test?

I'm taking my driving test tomorrow and I'm wondering what mistakes people have made in the past that knocked off points. Such as not looking into your mirrors enough or making a critical driving error. I would appreciate any information about what to do and what not to do. Thank you to anyone who anwsers.

How did you feel when you turned 17? and before you went off to college?

im turning 17 in a couple months and i still feel....i dont knoq, like kiddish. i dont act immature or anything like that its just. i dont FEEL the way i thought being 17 is supposed to. like you know when you were little and you thought of being 16, 17, 18? and you pictured yourself so grownup and knowlegable and all expericenced when you were about to go to college? i dont know about you but i did. and right know im going through the whole processes of chossing colleges and all that and it seems so wierd sometimes because i dont feel...older i guess? i still feel like a kid somtimes. so anyways, how did you feel when you were 17 and going through this process of colleges?